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I'm The Mom Of A Rambunctious Toddler And Here's Everything I Want For Mother's Day
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We hope you love our recommendations! While every product is independently chosen by our editors, BuzzFeed and our publishing partners may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page. You can read more about how our affiliate partnerships work in our Editorial Standards & Ethics Guide. Everything the mom in your life wants but would never purchase for herself. Lourdes Avila Uribe is a senior staff writer at HuffPost covering shopping trends, lifestyle and new products. It wasn’t until I became a mother that I realized that Mother’s Day is a really meaningful way to honor the person who has poured all their love and devotion into your care and development. I genuinely look forward to having a day that celebrates my hard work and accomplishments — mothering is no joke! Take a look and snag something for your sweet mom or spouse to make her feel loved, appreciated and seen. You can never go wrong with jewelry, and these designer look-alike earrings look so much more expensive than they actually are. They are super popular and elegant, and the curved, chunky silhouette promises to be wearable and comfortable. They are made with hypoallergenic materials and will be a great accessory regardless of aesthetic. Perfect for a stylish mom of a young, active kid, they're fashion-forward and cool but not so precious that it would be devastated if they went missing at the playground. Get them from Amazon for $13.95+ (available in two sizes and three finishes). Now that the weather is warming up on the east coast, my free time is primarily spent outdoors with my 18-month old — meaning that a good SPF is a non-negotiable. As a lover of K-beauty, I have been looking to try a new Korean sunscreen, and this one is at the top of my list. I prefer an ultra-lightweight chemical formulation for the summer months when the heat and humidity are in full force, and this one seems to have it all. I'm intrigued by the purple tint and the fact that it was formulated with acne-prone skin in mind. I've used Isntree SPF before and loved it, so I'm highly optimistic that this option will enter my skin care pantheon of must-haves. If you know a mom who also spend a lot of time outdoors with their toddler, they're bound to love this pick. It can take many years to recover from postpartum hair shedding — I had what my hairstylist claimed was "the worst postpartum hair loss she had ever seen" in her entire career, so I can definitely use all the help I can get. If you know a newly-minted mom who's in a similar boat, know that this hair oil is adored by reviewers for its supposed ability to strengthen hair. According to previous reporting by Shopping writer Tessa Flores, shoppers have claimed that their hair looks and feels healthier and thicker, including in areas such as the hairline that previously appeared sparse. Others have even said that the oil has done wonders for managing dandruff and scalp irritation. Mielle’s biotin-infused oil is made with jojoba, grape seed, evening primrose, rosemary and eucalyptus oil. Dr. Marisa Garshick, a board-certified dermatologist with MDCS Dermatology in New York City, told Flores that rosemary oil not only conditions and strengthens hair, but also helps reduce damage and breakage, thereby contributing to a stronger hair appearance. I am all in on the tomato-scented candle craze, but am reluctant to purchase one of the pricier options for myself. This is an official statement to anyone buying me a Mother's Day gift this year: I need a fancy one, urgently. Candles will always be great gifts for moms because it's an easy way to add a bit of luxury and self-care to everyday moments. The crisp and bright green tomato notes of this Maison Louis Marie candle are perfectly balanced with the richer and more musky notes of aakmoss, wild vetiver, buchu leaf and patchouli. Made from a soy wax blend, the Liane de Tomate scent also features less conventional notes of star anise and lavender for gentle freshness. There is something so charming about a butter keeper. I have always wanted one, but never gone ahead and purchased one for myself. Not only do they make butter spreadable and soft, but it also looks great on a countertop. This beauty from CB2 will make mom feel like she's on vacation in the French countryside. Moms spend a lot of time in the kitchen, and turning a utilitarian object into a lovely piece of decor can go a long way in making a space feel cozy. I'd much rather feel like I'm cooking up a delicious meal in a country cottage than a short-order cook in my tiny kitchen. Made of glazed terracotta, it has an elegant, timeless aesthetic that will never feel dated. Despite my lack of a green thumb, I love growing herbs during the warm spring and summer months. I'd love to upgrade my shabby little pots to a real Aerogarden system. My brother has one and loves it, and I'm tired of buying staples like basil and green onions when I know how easy it is to grow them yourself. It includes a gourmet seed pod kit containing Genovese basil, curly parsley, dill, thyme, Thai basil and mint. It can grow up to six plants at a time, up to 12 inches tall. And by removing one item from the shopping list, It'll also make schlepping groceries home with a toddler in tow that much easier. Get it from Amazon for $81.65+ (available in five colors). I recently purchased a pair of these luxurious Papinelle pajamas for my wife and am now in urgent need of a set for myself. The separates are made with a super lightweight, soft cotton material and the oversized silhouette looks fabulously cool. It's what I'd like to wear while swanning about my imaginary villa on the French Riviera (rather than making breakfast, bleary-eyed, with Ms. Rachel's voice playing in the background). They're ideal for those soft, slow mornings spent lounging around with little ones — especially come summertime. Available in sizes XS–XXL, the fit is meant to be quite oversized, so if your recipient prefers their garments to be fitted, you may want to size down. I'm absolutely devoted Merit's Lip Duo; there's no better lip combo out there. I love it so much that I've worn through the ones I have and am ready for a refill, please. (Wink, wink.) It's the perfect product for any mom who's trying to make her makeup routine go as quickly as possible without having to be precise. There's something extra special about it. My mom, who’s in her mid-60s, is the one who introduced me to it, and the pencil-and-gloss combo looks just as fabulous on her as it does on my 41-year-old lips (and TikTokers in their early 20s). Within minutes of trying her products, I ordered the duo for myself — and within hours of its arrival at my house, my wife had co-opted it as well. The lip pencil is shockingly hydrating and goes on smoothly and evenly, depositing sheer, buildable color, so it can be used really lightly for a subtle look or layer it on for a more dramatic effect. The unique gel formula has a balm-like finish that is truly comfy to wear all day, and is uniquely suited for mature skin. Best of all, the lip pencil is infused with antioxidant-rich ingredients like pomegranate and a jojoba complex that can strengthen the skin’s natural moisture barrier and help to keep it soft and hydrated. Like the liner, the gloss is also intensely nourishing thanks to shea butter, omega-3 fatty acids, rosehip oil and grapeseed oils that work their magic to deeply condition lips while jojoba oil creates a protective barrier. Merit even claims that repeated usage can help to maintain the lips’ natural moisture level over time. This gloss has a soft, featherlight texture that is a combination of a lip oil and a stain. True to its name, the lip gloss adds a nice slick of color that is juicy and gives the illusion of plumping. You can pick between eight liner colors and 10 lip oil hues. This combo is an easy way to look put together without a lot of effort while still feeling like yourself. The quality of ingredients and the beautiful, versatile looks it creates have made this combo a must-have among readers and deserving of its place on this year's Shopping Awards. Given how many times a parent of small children finds themself cleaning and washing dishes, a good hand cream is a must. And there's nothing better than splurging on a luxurious cream that smells great and leaves your hardworking hands soft and smooth. This hand cream from Flamingo Estate is formulated with lanolin, a blend of sunflower oil, olive oil and shea butter that melts into the skin. It has a luscious, cloud-like texture that deeply nourishes, soothes and restores while feeling lightweight. The combination of fragrant night blooming jasmine and Damask rose gives the cream a sensuous scent that is luxurious and timeless. I need this cream in my life! I've been wanting a Lack of Color sun hat for years, and never seem to bite the bullet on the splurge. It'd make a great gift for anyone, but especially for a toddler mom who spends lots of sunny weekends at the playground and wants to protect her skin. I love the wide-brim bucket hat silhouette and the fact that it has a necktie to keep it secure. It is made with UPF 50+ fabric for maximum sun protection. I cannot overstate how much I need one of these in my life. Draping my towel over the radiator really just doesn't compare! You know that feeling when you step out of a steamy shower, there's a touch of chill in the air, and someone hands you a freshly laundered towel straight out of the dryer? That little moment of luxurious bliss isn't reserved for spas, and when your showers are limited to five minutes or less (if the mom in question even has a moment to shower), you need every little luxury you can get. This portable bucket-style towel warmer that keeps its contents nice and toasty for up to one hour. It can be used for more than just towels, too: warm up bathrobes, pairs of socks and blankets as well. Plus, there's an auto shut-off function, so no one has to worry about forgetting to turn it off. Get it from Amazon for $88.99+ (available in two colors and sizes). I am a huge fan of Augustinus Bader products, but rarely splurge on them for myself. However, I often gift them because I know how nice it is to receive a gift of high-end skin care products. I'd love to luxuriate in a bottle of this beloved facial cream; it's my turn! Few things have aged me more than becoming a mother, and this cream just might be able to turn back time on my face. Lindsay Kastuk, a New York-based makeup artist, previously told us that Augustinus Bader's renowned moisturizer — simply called "The Cream" — is "a makeup artist's holy grail luxury moisturizer." It's the perfect gift for the skin care devotee mom who doesn't usually splurge on herself. It’s intensely hydrating and nourishing and it claims help to improve the skin’s overall complexion by reducing common signs of aging like fine lines and hyperpigmentation. It also promises to support and strengthen the skin’s natural barrier function, which can lead to smooth, soft and supple skin — making it ideal for those in cold, dry climates. Based on research that the brand has conducted, the cream has the potential to rejuvenate the complexion by supporting cellular renewal and drenching the skin with the many regenerative ingredients in the brand’s patented Trigger Factor Complex, which encompasses over 40 ingredients and is the result of decades of research and clinical study. Best of all, it’s formulated using potent, sustainably-sourced botanicals that are known for their effectiveness, like evening primrose oil, hyaluronic acid, Vitamin E, argan oil and avocado oil. All of these yummy ingredients work together to heal, nourish and protect skin. Get it from Sephora for $99+ (available in three sizes). I did a double-take when I first came upon this gorgeous designer-lookalike leather bag at Quince. It looks strikingly similar to The Row's highly coveted Margaux bag, but at a fraction of the price tag. Available in three colors, this everyday satchel is perfect for work days and beyond. It was thoughtfully designed to hold all the essentials and includes one exterior slip pocket, a zipper pocket, two slip pockets, side buckles and a removable key ring holder along with the zipper closure. I can already see myself swinging this beauty through the streets, and it's roomy enough for the diapers and baby essentials that parents of toddlers need to keep on hand. This game-changing device is now a cherished part of my body care routine, and I recommend it wholeheartedly. It has completely transformed the look and feel of my once painfully cracked heels and callused toes. Every mom needs one of these for her hardworking feet. I don't know how it happens, but my feet get wrecked,and it's even worse in the summer months when they tend to be more exposed. The Dr. Scholl’s electric callus remover does all the hard work of a traditional foot file, but is, in my opinion, far more effective. It is easy to manipulate and works quickly as the rotating roller head sloughs off dead, hard skin in mere moments. The result is soft, smooth and baby-fresh skin. The spinning head is removable, which makes it easy to clean, though to be honest, I mainly just rinse it under the sink while holding the button down. It makes a mess but it gets the job done. The device conveniently includes four AAA batteries, so it’s ready to use immediately. The small and powerful motor on this baby has the perfect amount of speed, and you can adjust the pressure yourself depending on how much you press into your foot. It’s a wondrous little buffer that everyone needs to have in their bathroom, especially as the warm weather season approaches and we prepare to bare toes. One of the glorious things about being a wife who has a wife is that my partner inherently understands that jewelry is always the best gift option for every occasion. She recently gifted me this Catbird locket for our anniversary and I'm besotted. It's something I'll cherish forever and will hopefully become an heirloom piece in our family. It's designed with 14 karat gold and has a dainty diamond in the center of the heart. Isn't it gorgeous? Yes, this is on the pricier side, but with a perfect 5-star rating at Quince, the third-generation TheraGun Mini handheld massage gun is "worth every penny," according to reviewers. It comes with three attachments and three speeds, and the lightweight, small design makes it easy to travel with. You can connect the TheraGun to the Therabody app using Bluetooth for routines, recommendations and more to get the fullest use out of the product. My wife and I are absolutely devoted to ours, even though it's a Mini version, it still packs a major punch and makes a huge difference with pain relief and minor muscle aches or tension. I can't live without it, and your mom or wife shouldn't have to either, especially if she spends her days chasing after and wrangling small kids. My back and neck have never been in worse shape, but this massager really makes a noticeable difference in muscle soreness. Get it from Amazon for $169.99+ (available in four colors). Flamingo Estate's pantry items are not to be missed, from Pamela Anderson's pickles to the brand's selection of eclectic olive oils. I'm intrigued by this jar of high-end fruit snacks; they look absolutely delicious and surprisingly versatile. It's exactly the kind of thing I would never splurge on for myself but would love to receive as a gift. They're a combination of sweet, tart and spicy, and would be just as tasty on their own as they would on a dollop of ice cream. Moms everywhere are in need of a sweet treat — and a quick energy boost when they're focused on making sure their picky toddlers are fed.